when conflict happens.
one only have two reactions:
1.speak up their mind and show their true feelings OR
2.hide whatever i think/feel, avoid whatever involve and run.
i used to be the no.2 type.
run as far as i could and avoid as much as i could.
but as time pass, with the enironment and ppl ard me, i slowly changed into a no.1 person.
and i starts to realise, how annoying and sickening to be with ppl of the no.2 personality.
cmon, we are all humans with the brain, eyes, mouths, ears and the hearts to judge whats the truth and the lies.
why cant ppl jus open up themselves and speak up their minds rather than jus keeping whatever stuff and let whatever that is happening get worse.
yar, one may needs lots of courage to speak up.
but, since you have the courage to make a particular decision at the beginning, i dont see why you dont have the courage to speak up and give a better and a "prettier" conclusion.
avoiding and running away from problems is such a coward and jerk-ish act!
well, many ppl, be it girls or boys, ladies or gentlemen, tend to use avoiding as a way to solve problems.
i think they are making the biggest mistake ever!
pls.. use your brain and think! what does avoiding the problem lead to?
more problems/sadness/heartaches/confusions/misunderstanding/anger??
or more... sorry cant think of any positive leads.
seems like this entry im shooting someone off??
yar i am!
lalalalalala~~
